It's really important to figure out who you really are, and what your place in the world is. Travel is a good way to start thinking about this kind of stuff, as it takes you out of your element and forces you to rethink yourself and the world around you. I'm writing a book about this very concept. I've also taken interest in my family tree. I find it fascinating to know exactly where I came from. The web makes it so easy to share this stuff with family, friends, and the masses.

But making a personal web site is a tricky thing. How much do you share? How personal do you get? What is appropriate?

Strangers have sent me messages saying they were really impressed with everything that I have up. Friends have told me that I'm nuts to put so much personal stuff online. But what about the other people out there, like potential employers and girlfriends? How much do you have to censor for your future bosses? And when a girl you are just getting to know does a Google search on your name at work, do you really want to give her such a big head start?

Who knows. I try to find a balance. But one thing is for sure: the web is a great place to vent. I have issues. And since no one really likes to listen to someone who has issues, this is a good outlet. It has to come out.

I guess that makes my site a bit "bloggy." Maybe it is, but I like to think that it's a little bit more organized and permanent than your typical blog. I'm not going to tell you what I had for breakfast this morning or what my friend said to me at work. I'm going to tell you about things that really matter to me.

Read my brain by clicking the links to the left.



Hmm

I dont know whats that, but i think u just amazed me a bit...


U do good pics

Gosia on August 3, 2007 at 10:25 AM EST
a story you might like

I was just catching up with old friends, and one of them has this story on their blog. I thought you might enjoy it.

>>> Know where you’re going in life…

I was just sharing my future plans with a friend, who sent me this little story:

The Mexican Fisherman

A boat docked in a tiny Mexican village. An American tourist complimented the Mexican fisherman on the quality of his fish and asked how long it took him to catch them.

“Not very long,” answered the Mexican.

“But then, why didn’t you stay out longer and catch more?” asked the American.

The Mexican explained that his small catch was sufficient to meet his needs and those of his family.

The American asked, “But what do you do with the rest of your time?”

“I sleep late, fish a little, play with my children, and take a siesta with my wife. In the evenings, I go into the village to see my friends, play the guitar, and sing a few songs… I have a full life.”

The American interrupted, “I have an MBA from Harvard, and I can help you! You should start by fishing longer every day. You can then sell the extra fish you catch. With the extra revenue, you can buy a
bigger boat.”

“And after that?” asked the Mexican.

“With the extra money the larger boat will bring, you can buy a second one and a third one and so on until you have an entire fleet of trawlers. Instead of selling your fish to a middle man, you can then negotiate directly with the processing plants and maybe even open your own plant. You can then leave this little village and move to Mexico City, Los Angeles, or even New York City! From there you can
direct your huge new enterprise.”

“How long would that take?” asked the Mexican.

“Twenty, perhaps twenty-five years,” replied the American.

“And after that?”

“Afterwards? Well my Friend, That’s when it gets really interesting,” answered the American, laughing. “When your business gets really big, you can start selling stocks and make millions!”

“Millions? Really? And after that?” said the Mexican.

“After that you’ll be able to retire, live in a tiny village near the coast, sleep late, play with your children, catch a few fish, take a siesta with your wife and spend your evenings doing what you like and enjoying your friends.”

Know where you’re going in life… you may already be there.

Erin on June 13, 2007 at 10:28 PM EST
South Africa

Why haven't you been to South Africa?! You have family there you know!
Thanks for the family tree. Now I also know where half of me comes from.

Anita van Dam on June 5, 2007 at 2:00 AM EST
your website

Your site is very sleek! Have any tips for someone starting off in the world of web development? My background is in PowerBuilder and in developing large-scale enterprise software systems...but I don't have a clue about web stuff. I've never worked with a stylesheet in my life. Any suggestions as to where one should start?

MB on November 6, 2006 at 7:24 PM EST
*giggle*

I just sent you a text message, HA HA!
It took me like 3 minutes to type it.

Michelle Allmon on September 28, 2006 at 10:04 PM EST
HA HA

I didn't realize the title of my comment would end up right under my name, well that is funny. I really am not conceited!!! hahahahaha

Michelle Allmon on September 28, 2006 at 9:07 PM EST
Crap

Happy belated birthday......DOH!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

Matt on September 24, 2006 at 2:20 AM EST
Travel

holy crap you've been to a lot of places.

anyway.

you're cute.

Michelle on September 8, 2006 at 6:05 PM EST
I declare..

I absolutely love your brain from what I have read, atleast I am not the only one quoting fortun cookies I have had the pleasure of almost eating.. what can I say, they are delish!
"Life isnt about how many breaths you take, its about how many moments take your breath away.."

♥

Lindsay on July 14, 2006 at 5:54 PM EST

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